How are you coming with committing to a healthy
mindset to build a strong foundation for your character?
I hope you continue to remember these words from Jim Rohn, “Personal success is
built on the foundation of character, and character is the result of
hundreds and hundreds of choices you might make that gradually turn who you are
at any given moment into who you want to be.”
I prefer watching college
basketball although with the NBA basketball championship games going on now, I
will watch these. I am a big fan of talented athletes who are also strong,
ethical people with character. I happened to be reading a Parent magazine
recently and there was an article about Stephen Curry, his wife, and their
children. Not only is he an incredible athlete, but his actions off the court
show he is a man of integrity, he values his wife and his children, and they
both seem to have their heads on straight when it comes to parenting. In my
opinion, we need to see more of this in our society!
I was recently reading an article
in Success about the Golden State Warriors. For a little background, the
Warriors basketball team has had a record-setting season with 73 regular season
wins, breaking the NBA record previously held by the Chicago Bulls. Their
success, however, didn’t happen overnight. Seeds were planted for this
incredible achievement and in a time when the franchise was considered
mediocre. It took a coach, Don Nelson, willing to rock the boat and do
something different than the norm. Most NBA rosters were anchored around a
7-foot center surrounded by traditional positions. Nelson, on the other hand,
took a different approach. He traded big-name players for a “band of journeymen
and ‘misfits’ to play ‘small ball.’ “He created a fun, fast-paced style of play
designed so that players were interchangeable parts.” The end result was an
entire team pulling together, highlighting each other’s strengths while also
having fun playing a game they loved. This change began to pay dividends.”
The revitalized franchise has
transformed their failure into success. “Fans love cheering for a team that
plays with joy, passion and celebrates each other’s successes each and every
game.” If you watch any of their games, you can actually see this joy, passion,
and celebration through their actions. In the article, it took this success on
the court one step further.
On a deeper level, the Warriors
success is not only about what happens on the court but is applicable to other sports.
It’s also applicable to your business, your relationships, and in your personal
life.” There are FIVE Lessons that we can all take to heart and learn how to
apply in our own lives:
Create Your Starting Lineup. None of us reach our goals by ourselves. Jim Rohn
always says, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time
with.” Think about that for a minute. Who would you say are the five people you
spend the most time with? Are these five people going to help you move toward
your goals? Are they supportive of you even when you’re struggling? For the
Warriors, each player had his own unique set of skills and talents, they worked
together to best use their specific contributions with the same goal in mind – work
toward the overall good of the team. Egos had to be checked at the door. This
leads into the second lesson.
Celebrate Other People’s Successes. Stephen Curry was the regular season MVP, however,
he wasn’t named the Finals MVP. Instead, one of his teammates was given that
honor. “Curry was seen jumping for joy, celebrating his teammate’s
accomplishment.” The lesson here is that “your inner game will improve
exponentially when you shift toward abundance and celebrating other people’s
wins.” Too often we see athletes, colleagues, friends sulk, point the finger,
rationalize, or give excuses as to why they didn’t get an award, make the first
team, get the promotion, or their attitude is such a fraud that we all know the
“joy” wasn’t real. Can you think of a situation where you didn’t receive an
award, or you didn’t get the recognition that you may have thought you deserved
or you didn’t get something that you really wanted? What did YOU do? Unlike
what we might initially think, someone else’s success doesn’t negate all that
we did and our contributions. What if we could all follow Stephen’s example of
being excited for someone else’s success?
Focus on Your Strengths. So often we are told we need to work on our
weaknesses. There is some truth to that especially when we are part of a team,
or we have others depending on us such as colleagues and family members. We
always have something to work on to get better. However, if we only
focus on our weaknesses we can only become mediocre. If we develop our
strengths, perfect our own style based on those strengths then we can get
better for ourselves as well as for the team (a team can also be your family or
your colleagues). That’s when we can truly become great. In order for this to
happen each of us needs to identify one or two strengths that we know we have, then
we decide, we TAKE ACTION, and we continue to move forward to make ourselves
even better.
Make it Fun. I
love watching the Warriors high-five one another on the court, the bench is
standing up cheering and sometimes waving towels, they are IN the game
emotionally even if they’re not on the court at the time. The atmosphere is
high-spirited. On a personal note, I have been watching several Rockies
baseball games lately. There definitely is not that same high-spirited
atmosphere. Even the sportscasters and announcers will talk about their low
energy and the fact it didn’t look like anyone was having any fun. I understand
that it’s easier to be “up” when the game is in your favor. However, we’ve all watched
games when the momentum switches quickly. It may only be one play, one caught
pass close to the TD line, or in the classroom you get back an A paper after
several C papers. Things will turn around! It’s a mindset, and it’s usually
something small or one event which can begin to make things fun again. Keep
moving forward and never quit!
Be the Best Version of You. In the Success article, the author noted
that not only was Curry the year’s regular season MVP by a unanimous vote, but
he was also the hardest worker. He did what many are not willing to do. He did
what he did when there wasn’t any press around, no one was watching. He did it
to be able to be the best version of him. He didn’t take one great game for
granted. Instead, he stayed after games to work on his jump shot or came an
hour early before a game to get a competitive edge. His focus continues to be
on consistently getting better himself. He wasn’t looking at everyone else, he
didn’t expect others to do what he did, but you can imagine what his teammates
did. Of course. They were also energized, they worked on getting better, and
they worked hard on their craft as well. That’s called leadership, that’s
called being a positive role model, and that means YOU being in control of being
the best version of YOU.
How can you take these five lessons
and apply them to your life? Choose one area that you want to focus on for the
next week. What is it you want to be able to do to begin setting a new habit?
What is it you can do to move toward a new goal or a goal that you want to
strengthen with more action behind it?
I wish you a week of reflection on what these five winning lessons from the Golden State Warriors means to you.
Nancy, really enjoy this blog, as I do all your blogs. This is so appropriate at this time. Thank you.
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