I hope you made a commitment to have a reflective time
last week and examine, in more depth, how things went for you over the holidays
in the areas of planning/organization, money, and relationships. What needs more attention in your life in
order for the negatives not to repeat themselves? This week, I want to focus on planning and organization. As I said last week, these three areas aren't exclusive to the holidays, but they seem to be exacerbated during the holiday
times.
In moving forward with each of us examining our own strengths
and our weaknesses in the area of planning and organization, let’s go forward
with a mindset that we ALL need some form of tweaking. Let’s also assume that each of us wants
to make a change,
and we're not going to use the same old excuses of why we
can’t change and improve. Do we all have
our own excuses and rationale for why we can’t be better organized or better
prepared? Of course! That’s a given. But read on if you truly want
to make some changes no matter how big or small.
I recently listened to a CD in the January Success
magazine, with Darren Hardy interviewing Laura Stack who is considered the
“productivity pro.” I began to listen
with more focus and attention when Laura began with the question whether we
were busy or productive.
Interesting. The common “buzz”
seems to be the word busy. Her
definition to busy is “we look the part but there aren’t results. Activity vs. accomplishment. Productivity, however, is not measured in the
number of hours, it’s the value you create and there are measurable RESULTS and
“documented” accomplishments! We all have 24 hours in a day, some days are more
productive than others, yet in the big picture are we seeing results of our
efforts? Are we accomplishing the things
which are THE most important to us?
As a side note, I learned several new strategies of
things I want to accomplish this next year.
We all don’t know what we don’t know which is why it’s important to
constantly be reading, listening to CD’s, “picking other people’s brains,” in
order to come up with refining, tweaking, or developing a totally new approach.
Looking beyond ourselves is NOT a
weakness. On the contrary, it’s definitely
a strength. It’s not settling for the
excuses, it’s not settling for the same old ways, it’s realizing that in order
for change to happen, we need suggestions and help. The only way that can happen is to commit to
personal growth and open ourselves up to needing help.
Laura pinpointed what is preventing us from being
productive. (And I include myself in all
that I’m addressing in today’s blog.)
The list includes; not prioritizing, not being able to say “no,” not being
organized, our plate seems already too full and we’re overwhelmed, we put other’s
needs before our own etc. etc. Busy? Productive?
In today’s world, there is a lot of our daily time that
seems to be out of our control due to the needs of our small children, the
needs of staff, our boss, technology etc.
Many of us have some kind of “to do” list. It’s not prioritized so we will generally do
the “feel good,” easy, fun things first.
However, emotions are a bad judge of prioritizing. Second, some people do things in the order
they appear FIFO – first in, first out, and a third is the order you think of
them. You’re multi-tasking and
constantly reprioritizing but it’s all happening in your mind. These actions are more focused on being busy
rather than prioritizing with a purpose.
Instead of coming up with New Year’s resolutions that
data shows only 8% of the people who set them are still working on them after
6-8 weeks, let’s set monthly goals instead.
In the next four to six weeks (you set the time line) focus on PRIORITIZING. Pick an area in your life: home, family,
work, health, spiritual etc. Once you
have that ONE area, now take a few
minutes to ask yourself the question, “If things were the way I would really
want them, what would that look like? (We
started with reflecting on how things went over the holidays, but as I also
said, it’s really an all year issue. The
holidays just seem to bring planning and organization to a head.) Breaking this down even further after
identifying the area of my life (business) I want to prioritize (improving my organization),
I now need to have a BIG PICTURE of
what will the end results “look like” if I am organized in my business. What will it look like for you in the area of
life YOU want to improve? This is a
crucial step – the BIG PICTURE. This is NOT
the time to start a long list of “to do’s.”)
In a sense, it’s like having your own mission statement that is
realistic, has your focus and desires all wrapped up in a couple
sentences. This is your “map” to guide
you through each day, each decision of what to do next. If you have that
big picture, that mission statement, then your “to do” list for the next day,
week, or month may only be two to three maybe four things. For example, I know I need to communicate
with my customers on a regular basis and to me regular means weekly. (I’m specific and not general in the
time). If at the end of the week, I have
only completed that one thing and it’s moving me closer to my mission statement
then I have been successful. I don’t
need to lament over all the things that didn't get done which, in the past, would have been my tendency. I still
have the “to do” list of getting the laundry done, reading, exercising etc. but
I’m not going to let the emotional, feel good tasks get in the way of my
priorities. The laundry etc. gets my attention AFTER I've done THE most important item of communicating with my
customers.
The goal for myself and for you is to look at life in a
different way. Rather than being
overwhelmed with all that you feel “needs” to get done, all the demands you
feel coming from children, spouse, co-workers, bosses, the expectations of what
you think others think etc. etc. keep in mind… if you have your BIG PICTURE goals and what you want to
accomplish in your life then it’s NOT about the number of tasks
accomplished. It IS about prioritizing that will lead you to accomplishing what
is truly important and valuable to you. The
reality is if your boss tells you that you need to be at a meeting at 11:00,
then you’re at that meeting at 11:00. If you're meeting with a recruit and his/her family on Saturday morning then you're there. If your little one is
running a fever and you need to leave work to pick them up from daycare then
you do it – no questions asked. Growing
a business whether it’s self-employed, coaching, employment by someone else
still entails a personal mission statement, a BIG PICTURE, and
prioritizing. Starting a new business,
starting a new job, raising small children has its own set of demands. At first, that new job, the young age of your
children, the new business may be more time consuming; that’s natural and
expected. Yes, the laundry may pile up
etc. but that’s only short term. However, if your organizational challenges
continue to be the same problem year after year then something does need to change.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting
different results.
Obviously, there are lots of variables when dealing with
priorities. What I hope the take away
here is one, in order for things to change YOU have to make a commitment to
change; two, learning and growing as a person first and foremost will unlock
the door to many ideas, suggestions, and avenues that wouldn’t be available
otherwise, and three having a BIG PICTURE with a mission statement as your road
map on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis is a necessity.
Now here’s the BIG QUESTION…are you interested in
changing the way things have been? Or
are you already making excuses that you don’t have the time; you’re too
busy? We all have 24 hours in a
day. So let me rephrase the “I’m too
busy” to “that’s not a priority for me.” If you know your priorities then
you’ll never again use the “I’m too busy” excuse.
I wish you a reflective week and a positive
mindset.
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