Tuesday, June 19, 2018

Be Present - Reflections


Time with three of the grandchildren. Hall of Fame induction for CU Coach Ceal Barry. Holding 9-month-old great nephew, Joseph, for the first time. Coffee update with another retired teacher and good friend. Father’s Day this past Sunday. Wonderful opportunities to celebrate and a reminder of the importance of time spent with friends and family.

Lots of miles put on the car traveling to Illinois, then on to Knoxville with a stop in Nashville for a short time before going back to Illinois, and then home. A reoccurring thought, throughout our travels, was how blessed I am that Jon and I are healthy enough to be able to do all we want to do.

We spent time with people we haven’t seen in a long time at Ceal’s induction. It was a time to reminisce, a time for stories, laughter, and a time to hear all that is happening in everyone’s life. Throughout the weekend, we heard stories of the impact coaches had on so many lives. It was the importance of having an opportunity to play a game they loved and to be able to get out of challenging environments to go on and make an impact on others’ lives. It was all about connections and the importance of how much people cared and showed their caring through their actions.

Stopping on our way back to the farm, we saw Dan, Holly, and Joseph. It was time to catch up on my nephew Dan’s finishing his residency and getting ready to begin his Fellowship starting July 1st. It was hearing from Holly about going back to work and juggling work and family, and it was extra special watching Joseph explore his world. Thank goodness for baby sign language as Joseph was ready to eat and let his parents know by signing.

Watching Teagan play T-ball brought many memories of when our kids played. It was coloring, putting together Legos, watching Kyan crawling at break neck speeds and climbing up on the dishwasher to “help.” Checking out all the newborn calves (LOTS) and the girls “helping” with getting the cows ready to classify. One of THE best parts was catching fireflies!! Unless you’ve been in the Midwest you may not know about these as we don’t have them here in Colorado. Jason made sure there was a glass jar with holes in the top and a little grass to put the fireflies that the girls caught.

Thanks to Jon and his willingness to “drive Miss Daisy” we missed hitting two deer and made it home safely. The car now registers over 200,000 miles. Many thoughts of all that Jon is to our children and grandchildren. He is someone we all can count on to do whatever it takes, is open to help in any way, is there to listen and help in whatever way that may look.

My thoughts from these 8 days…(1) hearing the grandchildren say please and thank you when they needed something, (2) coming home and finding in the mail a thank you hand written note, written by our 8 year old granddaughter along with a picture, (3) the best way to know what’s going on in someone’s life is to ask questions and totally listen to the answers without interrupting, (4) realizing we’re all in a position to influence, inspire, and empower others through the giving of our time, focus and being present, and (5) it was saying and hearing back “I love you.”

I wish you an opportunity to sit down and reflect on how you’ve spent your last couple weeks. What are your thoughts? What do you “come away with?”

Suggested book: The Go-Giver Leader by Bob Burg and John David Mann
Quote: “It’s the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.” John Wooden



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